Why do some people blame others for the consequences of their own chioces? Each of us have our own priorities and depending on our priorities, there lie our choices. Our priorities sometimes depend on our personalities, what do we want to achieve in our lives… what are our goals… which goals come first. Some would choose career over family. Some would choose money over career. Some would choose family over career. It really depends on what you want to achieve in life. It can get disappointing though if we don’t get things our own way. Then we blame other people for it… when all we have to do is change our choices. You get the grip? I am so in a reflective mood today. I think I am just missing my kids. … Read entire article »

My husband and I have been away since last Thursday. We’re only going back home on Monday. I wonder if it’s a Cyber Monday on Monday? Anyway… It doesn’t make sense to me that we only leave our kids with their grandparents once in a while and yet other family members are making so much noise about it. My parents-in-law had been asking me (since my kids were still a baby) whether they could take the kids with them so they could spend time with them. I didn’t send them for the first few years actually. I just recently started asking parents-in-law to look after them while I travel with my husband. I hope that some people would just stop being selfish and give way to others. … Read entire article »