We all try to be beautiful. Inside and outside. Men and women alike do. Show me a man that says he doesn’t care about what his partner or spouse looks like as long as that person has a good heart. Show me one and I can tell you he is hypocrite. Men, no matter how spiritual or angel they are, they still want their partners to be beautiful physically. Of course, they want their wives to be beautiful spiritually also because it is also important that wives fear the Lord. And nobody can deny that every person wants a spiritually beautiful spouse. But of course, to be physically beautiful is also very important. We might say we don’t care about our spouses’ looks but deep within our hearts, we want our men to look presentable and women to look s3xy.

My husband might be one of those men who have a very strong faith in the Lord… but he cares about how his wife looks like. He likes it when I put my make up on and he’s not shy to admit it. He doesn’t tell me I look nice when I know I don’t. Instead, he tells me nicely that maybe I want to change into something else that is better looking. Then I take the cue. I don’t look nice. I like it. I like it when he’s honest with me. At least I know what’s nice and what’s not so I can improve myself. I do the same thing with him. In our relationship, there’s always room for improvement.

So what do we do? We observe other people. They way they dress, the way they carry themselves. We noticed that the more well-dressed a person is, the more that person is confident. We like watching shows about self improvements, what to wear, what not to wear… how to put make up, how to dress up, etc. I have learned a lot. I know I still have a lot of things to learn.

Thus, Jan-Writes. This will talk about beauty stuff, fashion stuff, etc. Not that we value more our physical beauty and not our spiritual area (I have other blog that talks more on spirituality if you prefer that)… but we just want to improve ourselves. Be more presentable. I hope you will enjoy your stay here. I am taking tips from the people I observe while walking on the streets, or walking in the malls… or from TV shows that I see… or even from celebrity themselves.

So hang in there. If you have some tips, you are very welcome to share with me too. I would be very willing to post it here. Thank you.

Having said all these, I still believe that “Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain; But the woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.” Proverbs 31:30